There is trying to be cool, and actually being cool.
Right now, at this moment...you are cool. You don't have to buy a tricked out car, or wear a particular brand of shoes. You don't have to vacation in a remote locale or make six figures. You don't even have to go to know how to pronounce quinoa.
You're just swell, just the way you are.
And don't let anyone tell you anything differently.